Promise

Promise

Don Palmer

Don Palmer—a member of Westside's Writer's Group—shares his thoughts on the theme of "Promise" in this reflective piece. As he navigates personal challenges with hearing loss, Don highlights the dual nature of promise: one that signifies deep commitment and another that embodies hope for future growth.

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My first thought about the word “Promise” is its close association with “Vow,” as in marriage vows—some of the most serious promises you can make. This reflects a deep level of commitment.

Today, however, I want to explore another meaning: Promise as a sign of positive potential, something hopeful. For instance, when we say, “That young boy’s excellent skill on the soccer field shows promise,” or, “That young lady’s voice is beautiful and shows promise,” we express hope for future growth. However, it’s important to note that this potential is not guaranteed; it represents possibility, not certainty.

This brings to mind Apple’s upcoming AirPods Pro software update this fall, which will enable them to function as clinical-grade hearing aids at no additional cost for existing users. This feature will be suitable for those with low to moderate hearing loss. I must admit that my hearing loss qualifies as moderate-plus, perhaps worse. Still, I look forward to testing this promising development with my AirPods Pro.

My current hearing aids are nearly 20 years old, and I find them uncomfortable. They only work in specific situations, such as small rooms with little background noise and typically only when one person is speaking—quite limiting. I rarely wear them, and my hearing continues to worsen. I understand the temptation to retreat socially and isolate oneself, which is a real challenge for the hearing-impaired. Family and friends often get frustrated with my repeated requests to “Say again?” or my failure to acknowledge them because I simply didn’t hear. Comments like, “Wear your HEARING AIDS!” are not particularly helpful or encouraging.

Often, the easiest choice is to disengage and become a non-participant. The blessings (or curses?) of technology make this all too easy. You might find yourself scrolling through your feed or diving into the latest book on your Kindle app. But I resist that temptation; it’s the wrong path. I refuse to just nod and smile as if I heard. After all, you might have just insulted me! I keep asking, “What did you say?” or mumbling, “Huh?” I strive to engage socially, holding onto the promise of a better hearing future.

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